Thursday, July 28, 2011

How I started Male Chastity

There is only one way to start and that is dedication.  I’m not going to lie and tell you it’s easy.  Let’s face it most guys with a good sex drive are addicted to ejaculating.  I found out that most of my gay friends watch porn on a regular basis and are jacking off to it.  It almost seems ill-logical to not masturbate sometimes.  We do it for many reasons.  I use to do it because I was horny, but most of the time it’s because we are board, and lonely.  

Trying to stop masturbating is not an easy feat for a guy, especially when he has been doing it for so long.  It’s more of a habit than an addiction, in my opinion.  I read somewhere that you can break a habit by not performing the action for two weeks.  This isn’t true when it comes to masturbating and ejaculating.  It’s still on your mind after those two weeks and many weeks after.  So the question for me was how can I stop, and is it even possible?   This crossed my mind many times, but I would never dare to “dare” myself to see how long I could go without it. 

Searching the internet and looking for toys to enhance my sex life with my boyfriend I came across a chastity belt.  I didn’t know what it was or how it was used, but had the basic idea from a few minutes of research.  It sounded fun, and exciting.

I talked about the idea with my boyfriend.  He liked the idea, but only if I was the one in the chastity belt.  I agreed and purchased my first chastity belt, the C*-3000.   We got it in the mail, I put it on and day one started.  It wasn’t too bad, I was just more aware of my penis all day every day, and constantly was thinking about getting this piece of plastic off my dick.  By the end of the week I was so horny I was begging my boyfriend to get me off.  Even though we agreed on two weeks, that night I shot the biggest load I have ever shot my life.  It felt so euphoric; I didn’t know an orgasm could even feel that good.  

After that euphoric orgasm we decided to go two weeks.  The whole time I had my chastity belt on I got my boyfriend off during the two weeks.  It drove me crazy with hormones and I was consumed with wanting to get off.  Hoping and waiting for that one day to come when I could experience an orgasm again.  The desire in our relationship rose greatly.  There was a new connection between us, a new trust.  My boyfriend would tease me with the keys to my chastity belt, and promise that I was going to shoot a huge load at the end of the two weeks.  Every two weeks for about two months I would get off, that is until we decided that I could prolong my orgasms longer.